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December 21, 1999 - Met with our Attorney Jonathon Hendricks at 3:00p.m.  Jonathon tried to talk us into taking an alleged Settlement from Mediation.  He wanted me to sign the Minor’s Compromise papers.  We told him no.  The alleged Settlement we felt was not in the best interest of our daughter.  We told Jonathon that he needed to start acting in Jamie’s best interest and not Daniel Orr’s.  He stated that the law Firm of Rawlings, Olson, Cannon, Gormley & Desruisseaux, was going to take us to court to try and make us take this alleged Settlement.  He told us that legally we could not fight this alleged Settlement.  If we tried to fight it he would not represent Jamie and he would be a witness for the defense.  He tried to convince us that trying to fight this alleged Settlement would be a waste of time and there would be no way we could win.  He said that if we did not agree to the alleged Settlement we would have to find another Attorney to represent us in fighting the alleged Settlement.  However, he stated if by chance we did win, he would still be Jamie’s Attorney in trial.

November 23, 1999 - Talked to Kyle Edwards, Deputy Chief, at 9:00a.m.  He stated that the Officer’s Report had never been sealed.  He stated that he had talked to both the District Attorney’s Office and Abuse and Neglect for Children and both had denied ever stating that it had been sealed.  He also stated that they were not going to do anything about our claim that the Officer’s Report was falsified.  I explained to Mr. Edwards that according to the Officer’s Report, which stated that no CRIMINAL CHARGES neither were pending nor would be pursued until further facts were found.  We now had new information on the case and wanted these new facts looked into.  I told him about the contradictions in the Police Officer’s deposition and his report.  I also pointed out that Daniel Orr now had changed his story several times concerning what took place on August1, 1994, which we had in writing. Mr. Edwards told me that as far as he was concerned this case was closed and we would have to take our complaints to the Civil Courts.

November 20, 1999 - Met with our Attorney Jonathon Hendricks a 3:00p.m  Asked to see his questions that he had prepared for Officer Charparian’s deposition.  I was told by Mr. Hendricks since this was not a deposition he scheduled, but was scheduled by the opposing side, he would decide what questions to ask the Officer after hearing what the opposing Attorney asked him.  I took his answer to mean he had none.  Therefore, I gave him my list of approximately 52 questions I wanted answered by this POLICE OFFICER.

November 18-19, 1999 - I wrote deposition questions both days for the up coming deposition of Mark Chaparian, The Officer who stated that Jamie’s bruises were minor and that I was making a mountain out of a molehill. The same Officer whose police report I was protesting was falsified.

November 1999 - I received a call from Mary Kay a few days later telling me that the event number I had given her must be wrong.  She said she could not find any report on Jamie Farrar or Daniel Orr II.  I told her to talk to Sandy Durgan at Abuse and Neglect for Children because that is where I had to pick up the report, not at Records where you would usually get public information.  I told her I believed the Officer’s Report had been sealed because not even the Attorneys were able to find it or get it.  She then told me they do not seal Officer’s Reports or Police Reports.  Later that day she called again and asked if I could fax it to her, she still could not find it.  Therefore, I did

November 2, 1999 - An ambulance was called to our home to take my husband to the hospital.  He was having trouble breathing and was put in intensive care.  Due to the coercion, extreme duress placed on us by our Attorney and the Mediator during Mediation, and the lack of nutritious food, my husband stayed in intensive care for several days.

November 1, 1999 - That night my husband continued to get sick all night.  We had no idea why he was feeling so bad.  We had never experienced a diabetic attack due to not eating.  He had been a diabetic for four years and had never become ill like this due to his diabetes.

November 1, 2000 - Mediation was held on Monday, the holiday Halloween otherwise known as Nevada Day, from 10:30a.m. - 8:30p.m.  We found this quite strange as to why this was being done on a state holiday.  We now believe it was done so that there would be no witnesses in the building.  Prior to the Mediation, our Attorney informed us that we must attend Mediation before going to trial.  At the beginning of Mediation, we were told to sign the Mediation Rules and Agreement.  Joseph Bongiovi III, the man conducting the mediation, informed us that if Mediation went to the lunch hour, lunch would be provided.  We were concerned about this point because my diabetic husband needs to eat regularly.  However, when the lunch hour came and went, no lunch was provided to any of us even though we had requested it several times.  Our Attorney, Jonathon Hendricks of David Allen & Associates, informed us that if we left this Mediation without first coming to some kind of settlement, our case would be thrown out of Court.  At around 3:00 p.m., the secretary brought sweets into the conference room.  We were informed that these were left over from their Halloween party from the previous Friday. Sweets are the last thing any diabetic should eat especially when no other food has been provided.  Due to his fact, when the sweets were brought in, my husband was irritated because he was hungry and was not allowed to leave the mediation to get something to eat.  It was not until around 3:30 p.m. that my mother and daughter Jamie were allowed to leave Mediation.  At this time, still no food was provided for my husband or myself, who were still at the ongoing Mediation.  It was not until around 7:30 p.m. that my husband Dave was told by our attorney, Jonathan Hendricks, that he could leave the Mediation.  Because no agreement has been made at this time, I was told that I would still have to stay.  It was not until around 8:30 p.m. that I was allowed to leave.  No contracts were ever signed and nothing was ever put in writing, except for the signing of the Mediation Rules.

October 14, 1999 - Called FBI to find out about an update on our complaint.  Was told Mr. Hammel was taking care of this investigation and he would get back to us.

October 14, 1999 - Called Deputy Chief Kyle Edwards at 12:00-12:15p.m.  I asked if I could please get in to see Sheriff Keller.  I told him about the falsified Officer’s Report and about what had been said in Officer Chaparian’s deposition.  I thought they would be concerned about this and that something should be done to correct this mistake.  I told him what Mary Kay from the DA’s office had been told by Sandy Durgan about the Officer’s Report being sealed.  I also asked him why a Police Report would be sealed when the case was pending litigation.  I told him I thought all complaints or police reports were public information.  I was told that Officer’s Reports or Police Reports are not sealed and that he would investigate and get back to me.

October 6, 1999 - After I did not hear from the DA’s Office and my calls were being unanswered, I returned to the DA’s Office and was again seen by Mary Kay only.  This time however, I was not taken back into her office but seen in the waiting room, no other customers were there, out front.  She told me that Sandy Durgan had stated to her that the Officer’s Report had been sealed, and this case was closed.  However if I felt I needed to proceed with it I could take it to Civil Court.

October 6,1999 - I took the new information to the FBI, since Sheriff Jerry Keller would not see me and I kept getting the run around from his office.  I Talked to a Mrs. Brown.  Gave her a copy of the original officer’s Report and a copy of Officer Chaparian’s deposition.  I told her I believed that there was a conspiracy to cover up this crime and I believed that my daughter’s Civil Rights had been violated.  I told her I didn’t understand how this professional could get away with child abuse and no one seemed to be interested in doing anything about it.  I asked her if this man was above the LAW!  I was told they would check into it and get back to me. I was dismissed.

October 4, 1999 - I picked up Officer Mark Chaparian’s deposition from our Attorney.  Now I had proof that the statements made on the Officer’s Report were not my words but Officer Chaparian’s.  I also had proof that the Officer’s Report was incorrect.

September 23, 1999 - Several concerned people from Jamie’s Web Page Guest book informed me that I should contact the Mormon Church in Salt Lake City and report to them what Daniel Orr had done to Jamie.  So I did.  I was told that they would assign a person to investigate it and that they would get back to me.  I gave them Jamie’s Web Page so they could look at the video.  Still waiting for their reply.

September 10, 1999 - Visited District Attorney’s Office again.  This time I saw two investigators.  Before visiting the DA’s Office, I was told I could not be seen until it was turned over to them by Metro.  I spoke with a woman named Mary Kay and a man named Doug.  I told them about the Web Site and asked them to look at the videotape on the site.  After viewing the video, they asked me why this was never brought to their attention before.  I explained that I had talked to Charles Thompson several years ago, but was told nothing could be done until Metro turned it over to them.  I explained to them that the police report I had was false and that I wanted them to investigate my daughter’s case.  I told them that the Officers Report, which it was called, was not available to anyone and that it had taken me two and one half years to obtain.  Mary Kay advised me that the DA’s Office could get any report from Metro.  I was also informed that the statute of limitations was up and that no criminal charges could be brought against this man.  I believe this is why they were willing to see the videotape and now listen to me tell about Jamie’s case.  Therefore, I called their bluff.  I told them I was going to let them get the Officer’s Report and if they could not do it let me know and I would make them a copy of mine.  Just like I had to do for all the Attorneys.

August 23, 1999 - I checked Jamie's medical file at Southwest Medical and found the pictures taken in the hospital to be back in the file where they belong.

August 1999 - Decided to open a Web Page for Jamie.  Put videotape on Web page so everyone could see what Daniel Orr did to a defenseless handicapped six-year-old child.  I wanted other parents to be aware of what happened to Jamie so that maybe they could make sure this never happens to their child.

June 1999 - I decided that other parents needed to know about Jamie’s case.  I made up flyers letting the public know that a BATTERY COMPLAINT WAS FILED AGAINST DANIEL ORR II DDS.  I started passing them out.  I Even held a protest in front of his office with picket signs to let the public know what was done to our little girl.  I was tired of our Trial dates being cancelled, our prior Attorney working for the opposing side, our new Attorney telling us not to tell anyone about Jamie’s case and not to worry, while he did nothing; and all State Officials pretending this incident never happened.  Well it did happen and I was determined to get the word out.

March 18, 1999 - Brenda goes to Rawlings, Olson, Cannon, Gormley & Desruisseaux, also know as the ROC, for a deposition.  These are the Attorney’s who are representing Daniel Orr II.  It is here at their office that I, Brenda, see David Jones name on their information board.  David Jones was my Attorney at David Allen & Associates before Jonathon Hendricks, from January 96-Febuary 97.  Jonathon Hendricks told me that David Jones had left David Allen & Associates and that he would now be the Attorney representing our daughter in this case.  When asked where David Jones went he told me he did not know.  Well now, I did know.  He had gone to work for the opposing side.  When Jonathon arrived, I questioned him about David Jones working for the other side.  I was told that it would not matter and not to worry about it.  How could this be, my prior Attorney working for the other side and I am not to worry.  My deposition lasted approximately eight hours.

February 1999 - Depositions scheduled for Dave, Brenda, and Jamie. Depositions cancelled and rescheduled for Brenda March 17,1999.

February 2, 1999 - Called Teri Murphy to see if she had any luck.  She told me that Governor Kenny Guinn could not help me.  She said that she would be mailing Jamie’s videotape back certified.

.February 1, 1999 - Called Bud Cranor to find what was being done to correct the wrong that the Nevada State Dental Board did.  Told me there was nothing the Governor could do.  I was told I could pick up my audiotapes and videotape.  Also advised me I could go to Civil Court.

January 25, 1999 - I met with Bud Cranor at the Governor’s Office here in Las Vegas at 9:15a.m. -11:30a.m.  He listened to the tapes from the Nevada State Dental Board Public hearing of October 25,1995.  He was very upset about the inconsistency of the audiotapes he heard.  He also viewed the videotape of Jamie at the hospital.  I told him I wanted Jamie’s case to be reopened with the Nevada State Dental Board.  I was told he would talk to the governor and get back to me.

January 22, 1999 - Called Governor Guinn’s Office and talked to Bud Cranor.  Told him that I had talked to Teri Murphy and that I had not heard from her since November 11,1998.  Made appointment to see him in person and show him our evidence against Daniel Orr and the Nevada State Dental Board.

January 22, 1999 - Talked to Cathy Kascica.  She said she was sorry but was unable to find anyone who was willing to help.  She wished us luck and told me she really tried.  I thanked her for her help.

January 17, 1999 - Called Jerry Lewis and left message with secretary.  Told her that my father was Jim Grigsby, a Las Vegas Fireman who helped start the Boot Drive for Jerry’s Kids.  Mr. Lewis returned my call that day and I explained my situation to him.  I told him that I too had a handicapped child and that I could really use his help.  He told me to bring the videotape of Jamie to his Film Production Office and he would look at it at a later date.  He said that he was getting ready to go on tour to Australia and that he would be back around February 25,1999.  He then asked who the Oral Surgeon was.  I have never heard from Mr. Lewis again.  Even though several messages have been left by me to him.  Mr. Lewis has never returned the videotape of Jamie that was given to him.

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